Must Read: Red Flags – Episode 10
Episode 10 (Last Episode)
Francis stared at Sarah’s husband and children speechlessly, for a second, he envied Anthony, he wished he was in Anthony’s place.
“Oh I thought Sarah will never be able to concieve because of the several abortions, oh I wish I never left Sarah” Francis thought
Sarah didn’t bother to ask Francis if he was married or not as his old mother had already told her that Francis had never brought a good girl home, ever since they separated.
“The last girl, she dated slept with his friend” Francis’s mother had said while Francis looked away in shame, He signaled his mother to stop talking but the old woman continued
“Why did you leave my son?”The old woman threw in and Sarah told her it was the will of God. She didn’t bother going into details as it was a long story. Anthony was a very understanding man, he had stepped aside, so Sarah could interact with Francis and his mother.
Finally they went thier separate ways when they got into the flight. Sarah reminisced on her life and she was so thankful.
“Is even better to get married late and end up with the best spouse than to marry early and end up with the wrong spouse” She thought
She held Anthony all through the flight, she kissed him at any chance she got. And
Anthony loved it when Sarah kissed him, he was also kissing her back
“Anthony is the best thing that has happened to me, thank you God, I’m grateful for
my husband and my children. Thank you for giving me such a lovely family, my
husband is my best friend and the love of my life. He is not just kind and humble, he also has the fear of God and he loves God, Lord thank you” Sarah thought. Sarah and her family landed in the US soil and then they settled permanently in the United States, Where they lived happily.
It’s not wrong to marry early but be careful before you choose who to Marry. Don’t Ignore the Red Flags
One of the most important decisions you can make on the road to your destiny is choosing who you will allow to be a part of your life. The people we spend time with affect our journey. They influence us to move forward and rise higher, or they hold us back and cause us to live in mediocrity. It’s important to recognize the right relationships, and when you see that a relationship is unhealthy, you have to be willing to let it go so you can be in the right position to receive what God has for you
Not every man is a Husband material.
Some are friendzone materials.
Some are Boyfriend materials.
Some are sex mate materials.
Some are baby-papa materials.
Some are husband materials
Some are father materials
Marry a Man that would be a Brother, a good Husband and a Father to you
Some ladies, get into marriage with men who have no business being married.
Marriage is not for everybody.
Some men are not wired to function in matrimony.
Don’t allow marriage desperation or societal pressure to push you into the arms of a man who is not ready or suited for matrimony.
Don’t marry a man because you are pregnant for him.
Don’t marry him because he deflowered you or he was your first boyfriend
Don’t marry him because you are unemployed.
Don’t marry him because you’ve dated him for long.
Don’t marry him because you invested in him financially.
Marry him because you believe he is worthy of being called your Husband and the father of your unborn kids.
There are men everywhere but Husbands are scarce.
I pray for you yet to be married: you will not experience marriage bondage. And for you that feel you’ve made a mistake, retrace your step, and rededicate your marriage to God.
God is faithful and ready to help you and he will help you out.
This is not a gender war. If you are a man don’t take it personal. I know there are
also “un-wifable” women but that’s a story for another day. Thank you for your
understanding.
